Your First Time, On Your Terms.
Discover Your Confidence.
Ready for Your First Sexual Experience? Safely and Confidently.
For women in Tokyo who want to lose their virginity but have been held back by fear or pain. We offer a discreet and safe service prioritizing your privacy and well-being.
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Let Us Help You Overcome Your Sexual Worries.
Why Lost Virgin CAFE Is Chosen By Over 800 Women
Minimal Discomfort for Your First Time
Our experienced counselors have helped over 800 women, ensuring a comfortable experience with minimal discomfort.
Quick & Convenient Experience
Fit your first experience seamlessly into your busy work or travel schedule.
Embrace Sexual Enjoyment
After your session, you’ll be able to enjoy sex without anxiety.
Gain Confidence
Our service helps you unlock new confidence and joy in yourself and your life.
Complete Privacy
Enjoy your experience without judgment or fear of exposure. Your anonymity is our priority.
Open to All Backgrounds
Your nationality, religion, age, body type, or appearance are never a barrier. Everyone is welcome.
Zero Risk of Pregnancy or STIs
Our counselors always use condoms and undergo regular STI testing, ensuring your safety.
No Personal Identifiers Needed
We require no information that could identify you personally.
Meet Your Counselor
Masato
Founder of Lost Virgin CAFE | Sex Counselor | Bodywork Therapist
Thank you for visiting our website.
I’m Masato, the founder of Lost Virgin CAFE. Since we started our activity in 2013, we have provided painless, safe and secure Virginity Loss Service to more than 800 women in 10 years. Our service is used by women from their teens to their fifties.
Not only Japanese women, but also Asian women from Singapore, Thailand, Korea, China, and Western women from America, Britain, France and so on, have experienced sex for the first time in our service.
Many women who have been hurt by men’s lack of experience and misunderstanding about sex have gained confidence by experiencing safe and secure lost virginity.
179cm, 72kg, Muscular, Non-smoker,
History
| 2013 | Founded Lost Virgin CAFE |
| 2015 | Featured by a famous American Youtuber as a crazy Japanese service and went viral |
| 2016 | Received service requests from women all over the world |
| 2017 | Stopped accepting new applications due to the overwhelming demand |
| 2022 | Surpassed 800 users of the service |
Our Simple 6-Step Process
- Step 1: Free Online Consultation (30 min)
- During this confidential session, your counselor will listen to your current situation and desires. Feel free to ask any questions you have about our service.
- Step 2: Schedule & Location Arrangement
- Please email us several dates that work for you. We’ll also discuss a convenient meeting point.
- Step 3: Meet Up
- Come to the agreed-upon meeting point. We’ll inform you of your counselor’s attire on the day of the service, so you can easily spot them.
- Step 4: Transfer to a Love Hotel
- We’ll walk a few minutes from our meeting point to a ”love hotel”.
- Step 5: Shower & Massage
- After showering, please put on the gown provided by the love hotel. Your counselor will then provide a massage to prepare you for your experience.
- Step 6: Your First Experience
- Insertion will complete your first sexual experience.
What is Love Hotel?
What is a Love Hotel? Love hotels are private accommodations in Japan, primarily used by couples for short stays or overnight visits. Unlike regular hotels, they offer specialized facilities and services designed for couples to enjoy their time together in complete privacy.
“I was scared, but it was worth the challenge!!”
Please read the impressions of those who received Virginity Loss Service ahead of you.
“Thank you for providing Virginity Loss Service according to my schedule. I finally feel relieved. I had been struggling with not being able to sex for many years, but now I can confidently interact with men on an equal footing. Let’s go to an izakaya when I come to Japan again.”
— Lee from Singapore
37yo Programmer, Traveler
“I am studying at a university in Japan. I was very happy when I got my first boyfriend in my life, but I couldn’t do sex properly, and we broke up. I ran away because of the pain I felt. The pain became a trauma, and I didn’t want to sex ever again. But I got a Japanese boyfriend I really love, so I sought support to get closer to him this time. I was able to sex with almost no pain, and it was good. Masato-san’s technique is genuine.”
— Yang from China
21yo International Student
“Masato-san, thank you for giving me my first sex the other day. I was interested in sex, but I didn’t have much of a chance, so I’m glad I asked for your support to match my trip to Japan. I found your website by chance when I was searching for information about traveling in Japan. I am satisfied with your very polite and Japanese-like service. It has been a week since I received the service, and there is no pain or bleeding.”
— Zhao from China
41yo Teacher, Traveler
“I love Japanese culture, and this is my third trip to Japan. I also liked Japanese idols, so I wanted to sex with a Japanese man if possible. When I saw Lost Virgin CAFE on social media and contacted them, they quickly adjusted the schedule for me. Masato-san is very kind and was the ideal Japanese man I had imagined, so it was my first sex, but I really enjoyed it. I will recommend it to my friends too.”
— Park from South Korea
27yo Sales, Traveler
“A few years ago, Lost Virgin CAFE was something I learned about. It seemed weird at first, but now the reasons why so many women need this service are clear. In fact, sex was impossible with my ex-boyfriend and we broke up because of that. I never imagined that not being able to sex would be such a struggle. A work opportunity brought Japan within reach, so I decided to request Virginity Loss Service, even though I was hesitant. Masato-san communicated in English and was very reassuring, and it was a great decision to have my first sex in Japan.”
— Kate from USA
35yo Supply Chain Manager
“I love Japanese anime so much that I am studying Japanese history at a graduate school in Japan. I am not an outgoing person, so I have never had a boyfriend, but I have been interested in sex for a long time, so I applied for Virginity Loss Service. It was a bit painful, but in the end, I felt the pleasure, so I am very satisfied. I plan to request it a few more times until the pain completely disappears.”
— Louise from France
28yo International Student
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FAQ
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When can I use the service?
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You can schedule the service at your convenience.
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Where is the service provided?
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Services are provided at a love hotel within Tokyo.
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Who will provide the service?
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The service will be provided by the founder of Lost Virgin CAFE, who has assisted over 800 women.
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How long does the service take?
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It takes approximately 3 hours. However, this may be shorter depending on your physical condition.
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How much pain will there be?
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It’s comparable to menstrual discomfort.
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Is there any risk of pregnancy?
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Your counselor will always use a condom, minimizing the risk of pregnancy. We have never had a contraceptive failure. To further reduce the risk to almost zero, we recommend taking a low-dose birth control pill.
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Is there any risk of contracting an STI?
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No. In addition to condom use, our counselor undergoes regular STI testing and has never tested positive.
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Who typically uses this service?
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Our clients are primarily Japanese and foreign women in their late 20s to 40s who wish to experience their first sexual encounter. Many clients are busy professionals who haven’t had the opportunity, or individuals who feel anxious about sexual experiences.
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Is my privacy protected?
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Yes. Your personal information and service details will be kept strictly confidential and will not be disclosed to any third party.
Still Undecided? Let’s Talk.
This isn’t just about an experience; it’s about embracing a new you. We’re here to support your first step towards new confidence and joy.